This Good Day

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Lord,

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We pray for this day. It is a good day because you have given it to us, we are alive in it and we know You.

We pray that we would have hearts turned toward You today, minds focused on You and eyes opened to the many blessings and gifts that are ours in You.
You have given us so much. You have given us Your son, Jesus. You have given us the riches of Your word, the gift of the Holy Spirit who prompts us, teaches us and leads us. You have given us minds to understand and souls that long for a better eternity than this life.

Lord, You have created us to be women and women show forth Your creation in a unique way. Help us to joyfully embrace the gift of femininity.

Thank You that we are Your influencers and we leave a mark on the lives of others. Help us to use our gift of influence in a way that honors You. Keep us from being manipulative. Open our eyes to the powerful difference we can make in this world and give us Holy boldness to make a difference that glorifies You.

Lord, this is a glorious day and we dedicate it to You. We long for the day when You will make all things right and sin will no longer have dominion over us or the world. All of creation groans under the weight of sin.

Thank You for Your redemption. Thank You for loving us. images love never fails

In the powerful name of Jesus we pray,

Amen

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He leans against me as I open the pages of The Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder and I begin to read,
Once upon a time, sixty years ago, a little girl lived in the Big Woods of Wisconsin, in a little gray house made of logs.”

As I read I think to myself that this is the last time. It’s the last time I will begin this book series for the first time with one of our children.

I opened the pages of this book and read the entire series to his eldest sister, Lorna, when she was five. She is twenty-seven now.

I read the books to his eldest brother Phillip who is now twenty-five.

I read them to his sisters, Rosie and Hannah, and his brothers, Kealen and Noah.

Along came Abby (pictured above) and she determinedly said she would read them herself and the pattern was broken.

In the midst of Speech and Debate tournaments and Spanish and Greek classes for the teens, I savor this one last opportunity to begin, again; to be the introducer of certain books to this last child of ours.

I know, “introducer” isn’t really a word, but it should be. Isn’t every mother an introducer?

I hope your child’s imagination is filled to the brim with wonderful words put there by you. It’s not too late to start.


I had a mother who read to me
Sagas of pirates who scoured the sea,
Cutlasses clenched in their yellow teeth,
“Blackbirds” stowed in the hold beneath.

I had a Mother who read me lays
Of ancient and gallant and golden days;
Stories of Marmion and Ivanhoe,
Which every boy has a right to know.

I had a Mother who read me tales
Of Gelert the hound of the hills of Wales,
True to his trust till his tragic death,
Faithfulness blent with his final breath.

I had a Mother who read me the things
That wholesome life to the boy heart brings–
Stories that stir with an upward touch,
Oh, that each mother of boys were such!

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You may have tangible wealth untold;
Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold.
Richer than I you can never be–
I had a Mother who read to me.

~by Strickland Gillian

Pictures by our talented daughter Hannah

Springtime Pleasures and Living the Dream (updated!)

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I am overwhelmed by God’s goodness to us. The sun is shining and the flower boxes are full of flowers. Spring is in full bloom! Thank you, Lord.
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Years ago we bought our “dream home” in Southern Idaho. The big log house on almost seven acres gave us lots of room for our five, then six and, finally, the seventh of our eighth children who were born in that house.

There was a lot I loved about that house. It was made out of logs and it was sturdy and homey. There was a lot I didn’t love about that house, though; it was drafty when those Idaho prairie winds blew and it was hard to heat. Because we used a combination of coal and wood in the wood stove our house often smelled like a train.

We didn’t have a lot of money during the seven years we lived there and I wanted chickens. Chickens, themselves, don’t cost a lot but they do need good housing and fencing to keep them warm and safe. We never seemed to have the funds for the materials needed to house chickens so we never got any.

Well, that log house was many moves and many years ago. I’d given up on ever getting chickens, but last September our son Kealen surprised us by making the chicken dream happen. He built a nice little chicken house and scoured Craigslist for chickens. We got four of the prettiest little hens ever (the maximum number allowed in our city backyard).

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There is something really wonderful about hearing their cheerful clucky chicken voices first thing every morning. They’re handy little animals who eat the bugs in the yard and have scratched and loosened the soil in our very large garden space so we don’t have to dig it up this year!

Since they are birds of very little brain, they make us laugh a lot! chicken counting eggs Here’s the Little Red Hen trying to do a math problem.

The eggs are “organically grown, free range” and wonderful! We put a light in their house and these nice ladies have laid every single morning all winter long!

Who knew four simple chickens could bring such satisfaction?

Our backyard backs up on a major street and we are just blocks away from the mall, Costco, fast food places and the fire station (think SIRENS). It’s not the farm I visualized having so long ago but…

the sun is shining, the chickens are clucking and I can hear the sound of my laughing children…

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(Enjoy this video by our son Phillip on Chickens)
…I’m living my dream.

*Photography by our talented daughter Hannah Jane.

For more of my thoughts on living the dream please read this and this.

He’s Not Here, He is Risen!

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He’s not here! Oh, Praise the Lord, Jesus the Messiah has overcome sin and death!

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We can fully live because of His victory on the cross…and, someday, He will wipe all the tears from our eyes and we will live forever…

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…with Him!

Alleluia! He is Risen!

He is Risen, indeed.

Daily Treasures by Lorrie Flem (My Review)

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I have to admit that this audio talk by Lorrie Flem of Eternal Encouragement (www.eternalencouragement.com) was not what I expected. Her approach to “Learning to value and remember everyday miracles” was refreshingly different than many similar talks I have listened to.

To begin with, Lorrie has a very sweet sounding voice and delivery so she is easy to listen to. She is the mother of eight children and, as the mother of eight children myself, I struggle with coming across as harsh and authoritarian so I appreciated the fact that she sounds sweet but she also speaks with conviction.

Lorrie begins by addressing the fact that children are gifts from God and, thus, they are treasures! As a matter of fact, she and her husband ask each other, “How are the treasures doing?” when they ask about the children. I love that idea and approach because the words we use to describe our children are powerful words and will shape them as they mature.

Lorrie tells her listeners, “Don’t bury your treasures; keep a record of them, and their sparkle will brighten many a dark hour” and then she gives examples from her own life of other things that she treasures and her “record” of her treasures. For example, she keeps a glove that was scorched by a fire that her young child started in their house. It was the glove, lying in just the right place that enabled her husband to grab the blazing container and put out the fire. Lorrie emphasizes that, although the ugly glove may seem strange to keep as a memento, it is precious to her because it reminds her of God’s protection and deliverance of their daughter from a dangerous fire.

By the time Lorrie finishes recounting other items that she has kept to remind her of precious memories, I wished I had done the same thing! In the midst of her busy life she reminds herself that the really important things in life have to be searched for as a precious treasure.

The hour long audio includes:

Learn what real treasure is, as defined by God
Effective treasure-hunting techniques
7 ways to remember instead of burying your treasure
How to accurately measure wealth

You can purchase this encouraging and inspirational audio talk at Eternal Encouragement. It is currently a steal of a deal at only 4.97.

I received this product for review purposes only.

When Good Friday Collided With My Life

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I don’t remember if I first understood on a Friday. It could have been a Monday or a Saturday…but that day was a good day, a miraculous day for me. It was the day despair disguised as cool-hippie-girl met her Savior and was cleansed, redeemed and set free. I’ve never forgotten that day. I’ve never forgotten that my sins helped nail Him to that cross yet He loves me anyway. And I’ve returned there again and again…because the cross of Christ is the symbol of the most potent love in the world. It’s worth having.

And that’s why today is Good Friday. Because this day commemorates the day when your sins and mine were nailed to the cross and He overcame death on our behalf. It’s not just Good Friday. It’s the best Friday...ever.

Good Friday is observed on the Friday before Easter Sunday. On this day Christians commemorate the suffering and death on the cross of the Lord, Jesus Christ.

Many Christians spend this day in fasting and prayer as they remember the agony and suffering of Jesus on the cross. It was on the cross that Jesus, the lamb of God, took away the sins of the world. For us, it is truly Good Friday. It could even be called Wonderful, Marvelous Friday! Our debts were paid by a loving God who sent His son Jesus to be the propitiation for our sin!

The biblical account of Jesus’ death on the cross, or crucifixion, his burial and his resurrection, or raising from the dead, can be found in the following passages of Scripture: Matthew 27:27-28:8; Mark 15:16-16:19; Luke 23:26-24:35; and John 19:16-20:30.

“And in the article of death, as He saw the last fold of the grand design unrolled, He passed out of the world with the cry on His lips, “It is finished!” He uttered this cry as a soldier might do on the battlefield, who perceives, with the last effort of consciousness, that the struggle in which he has sacrificed his life has been a splendid victory.

But the triumph and the reward of His work never come to an end; for still, as the results of what He did unfold themselves age after age, as His words sink deeper into the minds of men, as His influence changes the face of the world, and as heaven fills with those whom He has redeemed, “He shall see of the travail of His soul, and shall be satisfied.”
-James Stalker

Lord Jesus, Thank you for dying on the cross and paying the price for our sins. We worship you.

Resurrection Eggs; Teach Your Children the Meaning of Easter

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Yes, I’ll admit it. I am together putting these eggs at the last minute because Easter caught me by surprise. I just wasn’t paying attention to the calendar….but, isn’t the motto of every mother,”Better late than never?”

After talking to my seven year old several days ago, I realized that he really doesn’t know the Easter story so these eggs may remedy that a bit. I am shamelessly taking advantage of our eleven year old and using her natural “take charge” attitude to put these together. As she collects the items, copies the verses and stuffs the eggs, she’ll be reviewing the Easter story at the same time.

We’ll be doubling up on the eggs and doing two per day (instead of one per day) because I’m starting five days before Easter. Although my goal is to get through them all by Sunday, it’s not the end of the world if we are still hiding and finding Resurrection eggs a week or two from now. When I remember that my goal is to talk about Jesus and His victory on the cross, I feel less pressure to complete them in within a certain time frame. If these take a while, we’re just extending the blessing!

I’m also just using items around the house and substituting as necessary.

Young children just love these eggs! I have found Dollar stores to be the best place to get them.

First Egg (which I will skip since we just had Palm Sunday and reviewed what it was all about)
Message: Jesus rode into Jerusalem on a donkey. The people waved palm branches.
Passage: Matthew 21:1-11
Item:piece of palm branch or anything that resembles a small palm branch leaf

Second Egg:
Message: Mary poured expensive perfume on Jesus’ feet.
Passage: John 12:2-8
Item: small perfume sample, cloth with perfume, or a piece of cotton with cologne on it

Third Egg:
Message: Jesus shared the Last Supper with His disciples.
Passage: Matthew 26:17-19
Item: piece of Chex cereal; or take clay and make a small bread-like shape

Fourth Egg:
Message: Judas betrayed Jesus for 30 pieces of silver.
Passage: Matthew 27:3
Item: 3 dimes or plastic “silver” money

Fifth Egg:
Message: Jesus carried His own cross.
Passage: John 19:17
Item: small plastic cross or use toothpicks/popsicle sticks cut and glued in a cross form

Sixth Egg:
Message: Soldiers placed a crown of thorns on Jesus’ head.
Passage: John 19:2
Item: small thorny branch or a large thorn all by itself

Seventh Egg:
Message: Soldiers parted Jesus’ garments and cast lots for His coat.
Passage: John 19:23
Item: swatch of burlap and a nail (or miniature dice)
Item: 7 or 8 whole cloves, or other whole spices

Eighth Egg:
Message: Jesus was nailed to a cross and pierced in His side.
Passage: John 19:18,37 & John 20:25-29
Item: a nail

Nineth Egg:
Message: They gave Jesus vinegar mixed with gall on a sponge to drink.
Passage: Matthew 27:34
Item: a small sponge

Tenth Egg:
Message: Spices to prepare Jesus for burial.
Passage: John 19:40

Eleventh Egg:
Message: The stone covering Jesus’ tomb was rolled away.
Passage: John 20:1
Item: a small rock

Twelveth Egg:

Message: The napkin around Jesus’ head was lying separately from His linen cloths. He was not there. He has
risen!
Passage: John 20:6-7
Item: a scrap of linen-type fabric

Celebrate Easter with these simple ideas as well!

Do you do anything to make Easter special? Please share your ideas with us!

Miracles in the Mundane

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Sometimes in the midst of the mundane we discover a miracle.

I have been thinking of miracles as I make the one hour drive to visit my ailing and elderly mother each week. She needs me in the middle of the night and early and late and her need is a longed-for answer to prayer. She wants my help for the first time…ever. This is a miracle. And, like many miracles, it comes with hard work and inconvenience and letting important tasks go in order to accomplish the essential. Math facts and writing lessons get squeezed around the care of a little eighty-four year old lady who has independently and stubbornly refused our help…until now.

Because, for this season and time and place the miracle in our midst is my elderly mother who wants and needs our help, who welcomes a meal-time blessing and who recognizes her own need and allows us to meet it…and our help is where Jesus steps in. It’s been a long time and many years and we are witnessing a miracle.

Old age is the last great struggle for the soul who has run from the “Hound of Heaven.” Even though old age can bring such hardship and suffering, it is also God’s gift to those who are facing eternity. It is His reminder that the end is near. Oh, how He loves you and me.

“Christ is building His kingdom with earth’s broken things. Men want only the strong, the successful, the victorious, the unbroken, in building their kingdoms; but God is the God of the unsuccessful, of those who have failed. Heaven is filling with earth’s broken lives, and there is no bruised reed that Christ cannot take and restore to glorious blessedness and beauty. He can take the life crushed by pain or sorrow and make it into a harp whose music shall be all praise. He can lift earth’s saddest failure up to heaven’s glory.”
― J.R. Miller

One of Those days

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The day started early and, since I was out of bed and feeling pretty perky early in the morning, the day seemed to be off to a good start. A facebook message from our eldest daughter told me she was heading over the snowy mountain pass from the furthest corner of Washington state. I prayed for her.

My husband has had an infected tooth for several days now and he has been a real bear…a bit impatient. While he calls and yells at the poor dental receptionist, telling her that he needs to get an appointment, “NOW”…I find the missing math book for the seven-year old, remind the eleven-year-old that her speech is due and double-check that the teen boys are gainfully busy with something that looks academic.

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I ignore the Spanish textbook that I need to study for the quiz tomorrow, make sure the dishes are loaded, hug the still-in-pain-and-not-being-very-polite husband and go out the door with the nineteen-year-old daughter.

We join new friends at Oh So Sweet, a nice little bistro restaurant that has some amazing salads. I order a Beatnik; beets covered by a bed of greens, pine nuts, feta, tiny slices of Jicama and slathered with the house dressing. I figure I get a full months worth of antioxidants in one meal and enjoy it to boot! Running off to fun little restaurants in the middle of the day is not usually on my agenda so I justify it by telling myself I am eating such healthy food.

After lots of wonderful girl talk with a little doctrine thrown in, my new friend and her daughters say goodbye.

Home again, home again, jiggity jig for two hours of junior speech taught in my home. While I teach in the basement, our 15-year-old son practices upstairs on his duo speech in preparation for an upcoming tournament in Idaho. His duo partner arrives and there is the sound of thumping feet and loud teenage voices overhead. As I struggle to keep the ten students downstairs from being distracted by the noise upstairs, I remind myself that we are hearing the sound of creative learning :-) .patrick with tattoo

After class, second eldest daughter who lives away from home calls asking advice for a bad sinus infection. I tell her the protocol for using echinacea/goldenseal and, yes, it tastes like dirt but it knocks it out better than any antibiotic. Stick with it, girl!

Husband comes in the door. He has found an extremely competent dentist who did the quickest root canal known to man on his tooth! While waiting to get into the dentist he called the previous dentists receptionist and apologized. He also apologizes to me and the kids.

It is late afternoon and I begin the laborious effort of making my mind focus on Spanish. It is hard. It is March and my mind wants to lay in the sun and listen to ocean waves some place balmy…preferably Hawaii. I take this class with our 17-year-old and it makes my brain hurt. While I work on Spanish, seven-year-old son finishes his math work. P1020471abby on books

Nothing looks appealing for dinner and I have waited until the end of the day to think about it(not a good strategy). We finally decide what to have and husband has to run to the store. Dinner will be late.

The day is sinking to a close, a day full of learning, friendship, frustration, anger and forgiveness. It has been a good day.DSCF1864

The Christian Lover by Dr.Michael Haykin

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9781567691115.jpg christian loverThe Christian Lover: The Sweetness of Love and Marriage in the Letters of Believers by Dr. Michael A. G. Haykin shares with his readers letters of love between men and women who deeply loved each other and were also committed Christians. This book sweeps away the contemporary view that only modern people experience romance in marriage.

Letters written by Martin and Katharina Luther, John and Idalette Calvin, John and Lucy Hutchinson, Philip and Mercy Dodderidge, Adoniram and Ann Judson as well as others, prove that Christians have long known the joy of romantic married love. Each chapter highlights a married couple and gives the reader some insight into why and when the letters were written and the background information to each couple.

As I read these letters expressing need, longing, gratefulness, and thankfulness to God for a spouse, I was strengthened in my faith and realized, again, that God is the author of marriage and that His plan for marriage far surpasses what most people expect or accept.

In contrast to a romance novel that often leads readers into comparing their marriages to fictional ones, these are letters written by real people who struggled with the same temptations and discouragements as today. The reader is left with a wonderfully human picture of the lives of the authors.

The believers in this book were separated by distance, war and disease. They spoke of important life decisions as well as practical, everyday things and I was reminded that, despite the trials of life, the covenant of marriage can serve as a wonderful conduit of blessing.

I highly recommend it The Christian Lover.

I received a copy of this book for review purposes from Reformation Trust Publishing.
Dr. Haykin is a professor of church history and biblical spirituality at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky.