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Unglued by Lisa Terkeurst; my Review

21 Tuesday May 2013

Posted by nt12many in Book Review, Books, Holy Bible, Inspirational Mama, Rest and Refreshment, Sticking through tough times, Thomas Nelson, Thoughts and Prayers

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a woman discovers her worth, God keeps His promises, godly wisdom, the Holy Bible, trusting God, wise words


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I’ve wanted to actually read a book by Lisa Terkeurst for awhile now. I’ve heard her on the radio (she’s articulate and funny and she has that no-fair North Carolina drawl! Did ya’all know I could have had a North Carolina southern drawl? We lived there for four years and it is an easy thing to acquire!).

Unglued; 60 Days of Imperfect Progress is a devotional book so it was definitely a test for me to read it and review it since I don’t like most devotional books.

Bottom line, I liked the book. I liked it because Mrs. Terkeurst writes like she sounds; real and down-to-earth. Of course, you can’t quite hear the drawl as you read but you’ll come pretty close. The devotional is a companion book to her book by the same name.

She writes, “Connection with God is such a deeply personal and uniquely individual process. Surely it can’t be reduced to three points and a poem. But there are two words that stir me over and over: “Follow Me.”

Those words are why Lisa writes with grace and grit and her words ring true.

Each daily devotional includes a scripture, thought for the day, devotion and a closing prayer.

I recommend this book.

I received this book from Thomas Nelson publishers/Booksneeze for the purpose of review.

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Oxygen for the Soul

19 Friday Apr 2013

Posted by nt12many in Changing the next generation, Holy Bible, Praying for our husbands, Rest and Refreshment, Sharing Jesus, Sticking through tough times, Strong families, Thoughts and Prayers

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I have a confession to make. I’ve always found the subject of prayer…um…boring. For me, the word prayer was a bit like the word budget; it sounded restrictive and dull.

I’d read the missionary stories (God’s Smuggler by Brother Andrew and The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom are two that come to mind) and those people made prayer seem vital, real and exciting.

But for me? Not so much.

Yet over the years I’ve prayed a lot and seen God work. I would pray when I was in great pain, pray for others who were experiencing sorrow and sickness and pray for my children when that middle-of-the-night-anxious-worry hit me.

In other words, I was good at crisis praying.

Almost two years ago I began praying weekly with an acquaintance who was going through struggles similar to ones I had experienced. I prayed to encourage her. I marked a date on the calendar and drove to her house just to keep her going. I didn’t want her to quit.

Together, we prayed.

Honestly, in the beginning, our commitment to a regular time of prayer wavered. We shared prayer requests talked too much before we got around to a short time of prayer.

It was a struggle but we kept meeting.

We had been praying together for a year when I moved to a new city with my family and our prayer time had to become a once-a-week phone call at an awkward time of day.

Strange to say, Thursday afternoons at 3 p.m. became the only time that mutually worked for us.

One hour…once a week.

Life is busy when you are middle-aged and the parents of adults, teens, in-betweens and an almost eight-year-old but, believe it or not, one year after my move, we are still praying.

Each week I feel like I’ve gotten a deep, wonderful gulp of life-giving oxygen as I lay my burdens down.

Life is so busy that we don’t want to use up our time together with small talk so we email our requests to each other beforehand. We fight hard to keep our commitment to pray together and it… is… hard.

Life goes on, you know?

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Each week we both give all glory to God that we have remained faithful to this one hour of prayer.

It is our life-blood, our oxygen, our giving back to God our worries, fears and problems.

We’ve seen answers and we praise Him for that but, mostly, we’ve found peace and rest in realizing that prayer is not complicated. It is (like a simple budget) not just for the “experts”.

We simply join our voices and our hearts in giving glory to our Great God. We lay our burdens down and we lift up the weak hands of others as we pray.

A faithful prayer partner is a gift from God. You might find one (like I did) through a shared trial. Ask God to bring you a sister in Christ with whom you can come to God in prayer.

“Come let us know, let us press on to know the Lord, for His coming is like the rains, like the spring rains watering the earth.” Hosea 6:9

How do you get enough oxygen for your soul?

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What I’ve Learned from Wise Mothers

14 Sunday Apr 2013

Posted by nt12many in Changing the next generation, Homemaking, not-to-do list, Sticking through tough times, Strong families, Thoughts and Prayers

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We all want to leave a legacy of wisdom and faith to our families but how do we accomplish that? One moment at a time.

Some families are full of good “fruit” and should be emulated. If you know of a family whose children have embraced their parents values, who are joyful and confident and secure, be sure to watch and learn from the woman who is mothering those children!

Here are some bits of wisdom I have learned from other women over the years;

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*Let your husband be a man and parent like one. He may be more matter-of-fact and not take the time to explain things like you do but his influence is essential in the life of your child and shows forth the heart of God in a different way than you do.

*Sometimes being a very involved mother means stepping back and allowing your child to experience consequences. Ask the Lord for wisdom for the right timing. A teen who keeps friends waiting may have to be left behind on an important day. A younger child may need to learn that leaving a favorite toy out in the rain ruins the toy and that it doesn’t get replaced. Look for these moments and choose to allow your child to feel uncomfortable under your guiding hand.

*Each stage of childhood and development is different. Even with a large family it is easy to lose touch with the changes your child is growing through. Find a good book full of trusted advice and refer to it again and again in order to fortify yourself for the next stage of life. Rejoice and be glad in the uniqueness of God’s creation in the life of a child.

*Wise mothers learn self-control so that they can act instead of react to all the ups and downs of raising children. It is worth the hard work of developing your own character in order to be a better mother.

*Pray for wisdom so that you can determine if your child just made a childish mistake or if he refused to listen and obey. You do not want to overlook sin but you also don’t want to overreact to childish mistakes.

*Joyful children have parents who choose to be joyful even through the ups and downs of life. Choose to be a smiling mother!
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*Don’t forget what it was like to be a child.

*You are the best mother for your child. Wise mothers know that no matter how hard parenting can get, they were meant to be the mother of their child. Embrace this truth.

Pray! The God of grace will give you wisdom. He has entrusted to you an eternal soul…will He not gently lead you?

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An Old Farmer’s Advice fer Livin’

12 Friday Apr 2013

Posted by nt12many in Humor, Inspirational Mama, Sticking through tough times, Strong families

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Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight and bull-strong.

Keep skunks and bankers and lawyers at a distance.

Life is simpler when you plow around the stump.

A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor.

Words that soak into your ears are whispered…not yelled.

Meanness don’t jes’ happen overnight.

Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads.

Do not corner something that you know is meaner than you.

It don’t take a very big person to carry a grudge.

You cannot unsay a cruel word.

Every path has a few puddles.

When you wallow with pigs, expect to get dirty.

The best sermons are lived, not preached.

Most of the stuff people worry about ain’t never gonna happen anyway.

Don’t judge folks by their relatives.

Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll enjoy it a second time.

Don’t interfere with somethin’ that ain’t botherin’ you none.

Timing has a lot to do with the outcome of a rain dance.

If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin’.

Sometimes you get, and sometimes you get got.

The biggest troublemaker you’ll probably ever have to deal with, watches you from the mirror every mornin’.

Always drink upstream from the herd.

Good judgment comes from experience, and a lotta that comes from bad judgment.

Lettin’ the cat outta the bag is a whole lot easier than puttin’ it back in.

If you get to thinkin’ you’re a person of some influence, try orderin’ somebody else’s dog around.

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.

(Author unknown. If you know who wrote this please let me know so I can give them credit)

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This Good Day

08 Monday Apr 2013

Posted by nt12many in Holy Bible, Inspirational Mama, Rest and Refreshment, Sharing Jesus, Sticking through tough times, Thoughts and Prayers

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Lord,

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We pray for this day. It is a good day because you have given it to us, we are alive in it and we know You.

We pray that we would have hearts turned toward You today, minds focused on You and eyes opened to the many blessings and gifts that are ours in You.
You have given us so much. You have given us Your son, Jesus. You have given us the riches of Your word, the gift of the Holy Spirit who prompts us, teaches us and leads us. You have given us minds to understand and souls that long for a better eternity than this life.

Lord, You have created us to be women and women show forth Your creation in a unique way. Help us to joyfully embrace the gift of femininity.

Thank You that we are Your influencers and we leave a mark on the lives of others. Help us to use our gift of influence in a way that honors You. Keep us from being manipulative. Open our eyes to the powerful difference we can make in this world and give us Holy boldness to make a difference that glorifies You.

Lord, this is a glorious day and we dedicate it to You. We long for the day when You will make all things right and sin will no longer have dominion over us or the world. All of creation groans under the weight of sin.

Thank You for Your redemption. Thank You for loving us. images love never fails

In the powerful name of Jesus we pray,

Amen

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Daily Treasures by Lorrie Flem (My Review)

30 Saturday Mar 2013

Posted by nt12many in Changing the next generation, Holy Bible, Inspirational Mama, not-to-do list, Rest and Refreshment, Sticking through tough times, Strong families, Thoughts and Prayers

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I have to admit that this audio talk by Lorrie Flem of Eternal Encouragement (www.eternalencouragement.com) was not what I expected. Her approach to “Learning to value and remember everyday miracles” was refreshingly different than many similar talks I have listened to.

To begin with, Lorrie has a very sweet sounding voice and delivery so she is easy to listen to. She is the mother of eight children and, as the mother of eight children myself, I struggle with coming across as harsh and authoritarian so I appreciated the fact that she sounds sweet but she also speaks with conviction.

Lorrie begins by addressing the fact that children are gifts from God and, thus, they are treasures! As a matter of fact, she and her husband ask each other, “How are the treasures doing?” when they ask about the children. I love that idea and approach because the words we use to describe our children are powerful words and will shape them as they mature.

Lorrie tells her listeners, “Don’t bury your treasures; keep a record of them, and their sparkle will brighten many a dark hour” and then she gives examples from her own life of other things that she treasures and her “record” of her treasures. For example, she keeps a glove that was scorched by a fire that her young child started in their house. It was the glove, lying in just the right place that enabled her husband to grab the blazing container and put out the fire. Lorrie emphasizes that, although the ugly glove may seem strange to keep as a memento, it is precious to her because it reminds her of God’s protection and deliverance of their daughter from a dangerous fire.

By the time Lorrie finishes recounting other items that she has kept to remind her of precious memories, I wished I had done the same thing! In the midst of her busy life she reminds herself that the really important things in life have to be searched for as a precious treasure.

The hour long audio includes:

Learn what real treasure is, as defined by God
Effective treasure-hunting techniques
7 ways to remember instead of burying your treasure
How to accurately measure wealth

You can purchase this encouraging and inspirational audio talk at Eternal Encouragement. It is currently a steal of a deal at only 4.97.

I received this product for review purposes only.

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Miracles in the Mundane

20 Wednesday Mar 2013

Posted by nt12many in Changing the next generation, creative ways to show love, Holy Bible, Home Education, Sharing Jesus, Sticking through tough times, Strong families

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Sometimes in the midst of the mundane we discover a miracle.

I have been thinking of miracles as I make the one hour drive to visit my ailing and elderly mother each week. She needs me in the middle of the night and early and late and her need is a longed-for answer to prayer. She wants my help for the first time…ever. This is a miracle. And, like many miracles, it comes with hard work and inconvenience and letting important tasks go in order to accomplish the essential. Math facts and writing lessons get squeezed around the care of a little eighty-four year old lady who has independently and stubbornly refused our help…until now.

Because, for this season and time and place the miracle in our midst is my elderly mother who wants and needs our help, who welcomes a meal-time blessing and who recognizes her own need and allows us to meet it…and our help is where Jesus steps in. It’s been a long time and many years and we are witnessing a miracle.

Old age is the last great struggle for the soul who has run from the “Hound of Heaven.” Even though old age can bring such hardship and suffering, it is also God’s gift to those who are facing eternity. It is His reminder that the end is near. Oh, how He loves you and me.

“Christ is building His kingdom with earth’s broken things. Men want only the strong, the successful, the victorious, the unbroken, in building their kingdoms; but God is the God of the unsuccessful, of those who have failed. Heaven is filling with earth’s broken lives, and there is no bruised reed that Christ cannot take and restore to glorious blessedness and beauty. He can take the life crushed by pain or sorrow and make it into a harp whose music shall be all praise. He can lift earth’s saddest failure up to heaven’s glory.”
― J.R. Miller

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One of Those days

09 Saturday Mar 2013

Posted by nt12many in Homemaking, Humor, Inspirational Mama, Sticking through tough times, Strong families, Thoughts and Prayers

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The day started early and, since I was out of bed and feeling pretty perky early in the morning, the day seemed to be off to a good start. A facebook message from our eldest daughter told me she was heading over the snowy mountain pass from the furthest corner of Washington state. I prayed for her.

My husband has had an infected tooth for several days now and he has been a real bear…a bit impatient. While he calls and yells at the poor dental receptionist, telling her that he needs to get an appointment, “NOW”…I find the missing math book for the seven-year old, remind the eleven-year-old that her speech is due and double-check that the teen boys are gainfully busy with something that looks academic.

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I ignore the Spanish textbook that I need to study for the quiz tomorrow, make sure the dishes are loaded, hug the still-in-pain-and-not-being-very-polite husband and go out the door with the nineteen-year-old daughter.

We join new friends at Oh So Sweet, a nice little bistro restaurant that has some amazing salads. I order a Beatnik; beets covered by a bed of greens, pine nuts, feta, tiny slices of Jicama and slathered with the house dressing. I figure I get a full months worth of antioxidants in one meal and enjoy it to boot! Running off to fun little restaurants in the middle of the day is not usually on my agenda so I justify it by telling myself I am eating such healthy food.

After lots of wonderful girl talk with a little doctrine thrown in, my new friend and her daughters say goodbye.

Home again, home again, jiggity jig for two hours of junior speech taught in my home. While I teach in the basement, our 15-year-old son practices upstairs on his duo speech in preparation for an upcoming tournament in Idaho. His duo partner arrives and there is the sound of thumping feet and loud teenage voices overhead. As I struggle to keep the ten students downstairs from being distracted by the noise upstairs, I remind myself that we are hearing the sound of creative learning :-) .patrick with tattoo

After class, second eldest daughter who lives away from home calls asking advice for a bad sinus infection. I tell her the protocol for using echinacea/goldenseal and, yes, it tastes like dirt but it knocks it out better than any antibiotic. Stick with it, girl!

Husband comes in the door. He has found an extremely competent dentist who did the quickest root canal known to man on his tooth! While waiting to get into the dentist he called the previous dentists receptionist and apologized. He also apologizes to me and the kids.

It is late afternoon and I begin the laborious effort of making my mind focus on Spanish. It is hard. It is March and my mind wants to lay in the sun and listen to ocean waves some place balmy…preferably Hawaii. I take this class with our 17-year-old and it makes my brain hurt. While I work on Spanish, seven-year-old son finishes his math work. P1020471abby on books

Nothing looks appealing for dinner and I have waited until the end of the day to think about it(not a good strategy). We finally decide what to have and husband has to run to the store. Dinner will be late.

The day is sinking to a close, a day full of learning, friendship, frustration, anger and forgiveness. It has been a good day.DSCF1864

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The Christian Lover by Dr.Michael Haykin

06 Wednesday Mar 2013

Posted by nt12many in Book Review, Books, Holy Bible, Praying for our husbands, Sticking through tough times, Thoughts and Prayers

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9781567691115.jpg christian loverThe Christian Lover: The Sweetness of Love and Marriage in the Letters of Believers by Dr. Michael A. G. Haykin shares with his readers letters of love between men and women who deeply loved each other and were also committed Christians. This book sweeps away the contemporary view that only modern people experience romance in marriage.

Letters written by Martin and Katharina Luther, John and Idalette Calvin, John and Lucy Hutchinson, Philip and Mercy Dodderidge, Adoniram and Ann Judson as well as others, prove that Christians have long known the joy of romantic married love. Each chapter highlights a married couple and gives the reader some insight into why and when the letters were written and the background information to each couple.

As I read these letters expressing need, longing, gratefulness, and thankfulness to God for a spouse, I was strengthened in my faith and realized, again, that God is the author of marriage and that His plan for marriage far surpasses what most people expect or accept.

In contrast to a romance novel that often leads readers into comparing their marriages to fictional ones, these are letters written by real people who struggled with the same temptations and discouragements as today. The reader is left with a wonderfully human picture of the lives of the authors.

The believers in this book were separated by distance, war and disease. They spoke of important life decisions as well as practical, everyday things and I was reminded that, despite the trials of life, the covenant of marriage can serve as a wonderful conduit of blessing.

I highly recommend it The Christian Lover.

I received a copy of this book for review purposes from Reformation Trust Publishing.
Dr. Haykin is a professor of church history and biblical spirituality at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky.

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Three Unseen Benefits of a Wise Mother at Home (a Repost)

04 Monday Mar 2013

Posted by nt12many in becoming a stay at home mom, Changing the next generation, Homemaking, Inspirational Mama, Sticking through tough times, Strong families, Thoughts and Prayers

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We’ve all read those intricate financial compilations by economic experts trying to prove that a homemaker really does have financial value. Because they can put a dollar amount on what a woman does in the home, they clap themselves on the back and point out that a homemaker is not really a parasite…she is worth something! She contributes!

Well, I’ve put down my box of chocolates, clambered off of my couch, turned off my soap operas and done a little thinking… *DING!* (thinking!) and I have come up with quite a few instances of how a woman in the home benefits her family and the world at large.

These are all hidden benefits of a wise woman at home and they are worth far more than money. There are so many benefits to having a wise, loving woman watching and caring for her family that I am only listing three here. Please leave a comment and share the ways that you benefit your family!

1. She pays attention. She walks by bedroom doors and listens to her preschoolers arguing and decides it’s a good time to talk to them about kindness, forgiveness and doing the right thing. She notices her discouraged teen and prayerfully waits for the right moment to find out what is going on in his life.

She watches, protects and builds.

2. She discerns…areas of weakness in her children that need to be strengthened such as poor work habits or sinful attitudes.
She takes the time to address those areas as well as bring them to her husband’s attention and to pray over them.

She is also quick to discern areas of growth when her child does what is right. She encourages and applauds. Her family feels loved and blessed because, in this huge world of ours, there is someone who loves them enough to pay attention!

3. She prepares. She knows that life is full of good times and bad so she leaves enough time and energy in her day to address the hard issues in life. She understands that she is building her marriage by guarding her schedule so she is not all “used up” when her husband spends time with her. She leaves a little extra space in her life… because life happens and somebody has to deal with it!

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What do you think about this list? What would you add?

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