I choose books to review very cautiously because there are good books and there are the books that I refer to as “marshmallows for the brain” (sweet and tasty but, ultimately, bad for your health). I do not want to recommend a book that would be a stumbling block to readers and most Christian romances fall into that category.
Romances can be inspirational but, unfortunately, they often inspire their readers to be discontent. Discontentment is an area in which women seem to naturally struggle.
Carrie Daws wanted to write a Christian romance that she would feel good about allowing her own daughter to read. She accomplished her goal and gave the reader a well-written book.
The remarkable thing about this book is Mrs. Daws avoids the fleshy focus of many romances without being preachy.
Amber is a homeless girl on the move (the reader eventually discovers why). When Amber finds herself in a small town on a winter night, she asks for work and is invited home by a kind middle aged Christian man who hires her just so he and his wife can minister to her. Remember that discontentment that many romances feed in their readers? Well, Carrie, this middle aged couple is so warm, welcoming and kind that I found myself wanting someone like them in my life!
Besides a high standard, Carrie is also a good writer. Her story development is solid, the characters are fairly true to form (most romance writers feminize the men) and the overall story line is interesting. As a matter of fact, it wasn’t until I finished the book that I realized the two primary characters (Amber and Peter) had never had any more contact than the Peter reaching out and sympathetically touching Amber’s hands or wiping a tear away. Mrs. Daws does an awesome job of showing Christ’s love for Amber through the character of Peter.
I also realized (after finishing the book) that the physical description of the two characters was very lightly addressed. There were no lengthy descriptions of the mans masculine jawline or the pouty lip of the woman that often lurk in Christian romances. Yet readers know that Peter is very masculine by his decisiveness and his prayerful pursuit of Amber.
I also love the fact that there is an unfinished house in the story that Peter is inspired to complete in a way that pleases Amber (a beautiful picture of our bridegroom, Christ, and the mansion he is lovingly preparing for us).
For a first book, I feel that the author hit the ball out of the park with a story of redemptive love and the power of forgiveness. It’s also wonderful to note that this book is the first of what will be a series.
The author has also prepared a downloadable discussion sheet along with a free seven day devotional which makes it a wonderful book for book groups!
I received a free copy of this book to review. I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC Regulations. I am part of The Christian Woman Affiliate Review Crew.
I recommend this book and am delighted that author Carrie Daws kindly sent me an additional autographed copy to give away to Generational Womanhood readers!
Please leave a comment and share what is your greatest area of discontentment in your life? How has God helped you with that area? I will draw a winner on September 1st so be sure to leave your contact info!
my greatest area of discontentment: our house
Thanks for the comment, Nancy. How are you striving to give your discontentment to God. I think you’ve hit on another area where many women are discontent! You are entered.
Jill
Jill! This book sounds really good. Okay…my greatest discontentment is: “My time not being my own since being married and having children” (yes, that’s all I thought of and dreamed of for 32 years and even with God giving me the desire of my heart…which I am SO thankful for…..it is STILL very hard…esp. when the children were very young!)
How I’ve dealt with it: I try to remind myself often that God calls me to be a LIVING sacrifice….to live a life of SERVING like He did, and not focus on wanting my own time. I remind myself that there will likely come a day that I will sit alone in a rocking chair with everyone I love gone, and LONG for these days back. So….I struggle yes, but then try to keep it all in perspective. The days go by very quickly!
Thanks for the comment, Connie! Your struggle is a very real struggle for many of us! You are entered!
Blessings,
Jill
BTW…I love your new family photo! It may not be NEW…but I just had never seen it before.
Thank you. It was taken in May and I just put it up there!
Thank you so much for taking the time to read Crossing Values, and thank you for such a thoughtful review! Reading this makes me appreciate even more how much God did the writing through me because what you describe above is so far above my abilities. Its speaks volumes about my life verse: To Him who is able to immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine!
I think the commenters here have already mention perhaps the two areas of discontent I most struggle with — my home (not enough stuff, too much stuff, the wrong kind of stuff) and my time (raising/homeschooling three kids). I think it’s in my children that I most easily refocus because I know that if I fail in doing a godly job of raising them, then I have failed terribly!
Thank you for commenting, Carrie! I won’t enter you in the drawing since it is your book! As one who officially has three children out of the nest, I do want to encourage you that God intervenes in our very weakness and His grace intercedes for us as we raise our children. My life verse is 2 Corinthians 12:9 where Paul talks about God’s power being perfected in his weakness…and I have found this to be true. I look at my children and I look at my weaknesses and all glory goes to Jesus!
Jill
Amen!!
I think one of the biggest areas of discontentment is what my husband does NOT do! The Lord constantly reminds me of what he DOES do, and to be thankful that he is a godly man, and I could be in a much worse situation that I think that I am.
Lynell
timothykuhn@juno.com
oooh, good area to bring up, Lynell! Discontentment with our husband’s is exactly why most romances can be dangerous for women to read! There is no way on earth our men can live up to the sweetie/nicey/rich/ understanding men in most romance novels!
You are entered for the book giveaway!
Jill
My biggest area is feeling like I am living in chaos. God is leading me toward a simplier life however as he is convicting me of letting go more.
My greatest area of distress is having a sense of having too much to do and being overwhelmed. God is leading me toward a simplier life.
It can be a work in progress, letting go of chaos and seeking simplicity but it is worth it!
Thanks for commenting. You are entered.
Jill